The List of Things That Will Not Change

What is the purpose of Bea’s list? Why do her parents create it for her, and how does it help her along the way? Why does Lizette tell Bea that she’s lucky her parents still love each other?

How does witnessing the unfolding of the relationship between her dad and Jesse teach Bea about The Unconditional Love that Composes a True Family? Why does Bea compare this love to her dad and uncle hearing corn grow together?

Why is it so important for Bea to forgive herself? How does being honest and open about her mistakes help her heal from them?

Regarding Bea’s life, describe The Effects of Parental Divorce in Childhood. How did each member of Bea’s family, including herself, react to these changes? What bothered Bea most about her parents no longer being together?

What examples of discrimination are shown throughout the novel? What does Jesse mean when he tells Bea that she should choose the people in her life carefully?

During her time with Miriam, Bea discovers The Relationship Between Mental Health, Behavior, and Emotions. Why does Bea need someone like Miriam, instead of just a friend or family member, to discuss these issues with? Which of Bea’s actions demonstrate her internal challenges, and why does learning about the nature of her emotions help her overcome them?

How are Bea and Sonia alike? How do they differ? Why do each of them react so differently to the idea of a blended family at first?

Why does Bea find it difficult to tell a story? How is this challenge demonstrated in her narrative, and how does it affect the reading experience?